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We’re asking ghosts to talk to us. But are we certain the spirits hear us when we talk to ghosts?
I’m not sure many ghost hunters have considered this issue.
Sure, look at past episodes of ghost-hunting TV shows like Ghost Hunters or Ghost Adventures. You’ll see “ghosts” talking to investigators through ghost hunting tools, from loosened flashlights to EVP recordings to real-time communications devices.
However, that may not be the question.
Maybe people aren’t asking how ghosts communicate to us; they’re asking how people can talk to ghosts.
(I’m ignoring the fact that we don’t use Ouija boards to talk to ghosts. People talk out loud to them, while poised at the Ouija board. Does the board help ghosts hear us? It’s possible, but I’m not sure it’s likely.)
So, is it as difficult for people to speak to ghosts, as it is for them to contact us? I think this needs to be considered and explored. I’m not sure if ghosts if have difficulty receiving messages from us.
In many cases, when someone is troubled by a ghost in his or her home, I say, “Just talk to your ghosts, out loud.”
So far, readers report success with this.
However, they may have a special connection with their ghosts. After all, they share the same space, day in and day out. That may improve communications across the divide.
When I’ve talked out loud to ghosts at haunted sites I’ve visited, I’ve had mixed results.
– At Gilson Road Cemetery (Nashua, NH), I get the feeling the ghosts really don’t care if I talk to them or not.
Oh, they’ve misbehaved when I’ve investigated the site with skeptics. (That always amuses me, but that may be a reflection of my sense of humor.)
They also manifest in various ways when researchers are there. But, do ghosts actually care what we say to them? I have no idea.
– I’ve seen the other extreme, too. It was at Falstaff’s Experience/Tudor World (Stratford-upon-Avon, England).
There, at least one ghost responded to almost everything that was said. He also seemed to read thoughts. It was disconcerting.
– Between the extremes of Gilson Road Cemetery and Tudor World, ghosts have responded inconsistently, even at very active sites.
So, how do people talk to ghosts?
So far, we just talk.
Maybe we need to try other means. Many of us — including me — have assumed ghosts are hanging on every word we utter.
But, what if they hear only 10% of what we say, or less?
There’s a lot to consider.
- Maybe ghosts can read what we write.
- Can they detect EMF spikes on their side of the veil? Perhaps we could try turning EMF generators on and off, repeatedly, to get their attention.
- Maybe they can hear whistling, or singing, or… well, this could be a very long list.
Do we really know the best ways to talk to ghosts?
I think it’s a time to explore better way to communicate with ghosts, instead of focusing exclusively on better ways to hear from them.